If y0u kiss her, y0u are n0t a gentleman,
If y0u d0n't, y0u are n0t a man.
If y0u praise her, she thinks y0u are lying,
If y0u d0n't, y0u are g0od f0r n0thing.
If y0u visit her 0ften, she thinks y0u are b0ring,
If y0u d0n't, she accuses y0u 0f d0uble-cr0ssing.
If y0u are well dressed, she says y0u are a playb0y,
If y0u d0n't, y0u are a dull b0y.
If y0u are jeal0us, she says it's bad,
If y0u d0n't, she thinks y0u d0 n0t l0ve her.
If y0u are a minute late, she c0mplains it's hard t0 wait,
If she is late, she says that's a girl's way.
If y0u visit an0ther man, y0u're n0t putting in "quality time",
If she is visited by an0ther w0man, "0h it's natural, we are girls".
If y0u fail t0 help her in cr0ssing the street, y0u lack ethics,
If y0u d0, she thinks it's just 0ne 0f men's tactics f0r seducti0n.
If y0u stare at an0ther w0man, she accuses you 0f flirting,
If she is stared by 0ther men, she says that they are just admiring.
If y0u talk, she wants you t0 listen,
If y0u listen, she wants you t0 talk.
s0urce fr0m, http://www.lovefatedestiny.com/womenaredifficult.htm
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
I l0ve u...
N0w days, many pe0ple use this p0werful phrase l0osely, there are times when y0u want t0 say "I l0ve y0u" in a meaningful way. C0me 0ne, let's i sh0w y0u tips about h0w t0 say i l0ve u with a right way.
Firstly, make eye c0ntact. If y0u l0ve this pers0n, h0pefully y0u feel c0mf0rtable en0ugh t0 gaze int0 their eyes when y0u express y0ur feelings. Making eye c0ntact sh0ws sincerity and c0mmunicates trust.
Sec0ndly, smile. It can be nerve-wracking t0 tell s0me0ne that y0u l0ve him 0r her, 0nly t0 wait anxi0usly f0r their resp0nse--especially if it's the first time either 0f y0u have verbally expressed l0ve. The best way t0 0verc0me this fear is t0 n0t expect the phrase in return. Y0ur intenti0n can be t0 tell the pers0n h0w y0u feel, with the h0pe 0f making them happy and sh0wing them that they are valued. Remember that unc0nditional l0ve means n0t demanding anything in return. S0 smile, and perhaps give y0ur l0ved 0ne a hug. If they l0ve y0u, t0o, they'll say it in their 0wn way and in their 0wn time.
Thirdly, be creative. Say it in different languages. Write int0 a p0em 0r even a haiku. If y0u want t0 be romantic, spell it 0ut with r0se petals 0n his 0r her bedr0om fl0or. Write it in c0de, like 1437 0r using a Vigènere cipher. Say it in little ways, like p0st-it n0tes in unexpected places, and express it in every way y0u can.
Lastly, D0n't just say it, d0 it. L0ve is n0t just a feeling; it's an acti0n. Saying it with0ut sh0wing it is, in a way, a lie. Express y0ur l0ve in acti0n as well as in w0rds. Children can sh0w l0ve f0r their parents by cleaning up their r0om with0ut being asked. A pers0n can send fl0wers t0 their partner in the middle 0f the week fo\0r n0 particular reas0n 0ther than t0 sh0w l0ve. Acts 0f kindness f0r the 0ne y0u l0ve, with0ut being asked, speak l0uder than w0rds. D0 things f0r y0ur l0ved 0nes that they are n0t willing, likely 0r able t0 d0 f0r themselves.
taken fr0m, http://www.wikihow.com/Say-I-Love-You
Firstly, make eye c0ntact. If y0u l0ve this pers0n, h0pefully y0u feel c0mf0rtable en0ugh t0 gaze int0 their eyes when y0u express y0ur feelings. Making eye c0ntact sh0ws sincerity and c0mmunicates trust.
Sec0ndly, smile. It can be nerve-wracking t0 tell s0me0ne that y0u l0ve him 0r her, 0nly t0 wait anxi0usly f0r their resp0nse--especially if it's the first time either 0f y0u have verbally expressed l0ve. The best way t0 0verc0me this fear is t0 n0t expect the phrase in return. Y0ur intenti0n can be t0 tell the pers0n h0w y0u feel, with the h0pe 0f making them happy and sh0wing them that they are valued. Remember that unc0nditional l0ve means n0t demanding anything in return. S0 smile, and perhaps give y0ur l0ved 0ne a hug. If they l0ve y0u, t0o, they'll say it in their 0wn way and in their 0wn time.
Thirdly, be creative. Say it in different languages. Write int0 a p0em 0r even a haiku. If y0u want t0 be romantic, spell it 0ut with r0se petals 0n his 0r her bedr0om fl0or. Write it in c0de, like 1437 0r using a Vigènere cipher. Say it in little ways, like p0st-it n0tes in unexpected places, and express it in every way y0u can.
Lastly, D0n't just say it, d0 it. L0ve is n0t just a feeling; it's an acti0n. Saying it with0ut sh0wing it is, in a way, a lie. Express y0ur l0ve in acti0n as well as in w0rds. Children can sh0w l0ve f0r their parents by cleaning up their r0om with0ut being asked. A pers0n can send fl0wers t0 their partner in the middle 0f the week fo\0r n0 particular reas0n 0ther than t0 sh0w l0ve. Acts 0f kindness f0r the 0ne y0u l0ve, with0ut being asked, speak l0uder than w0rds. D0 things f0r y0ur l0ved 0nes that they are n0t willing, likely 0r able t0 d0 f0r themselves.
taken fr0m, http://www.wikihow.com/Say-I-Love-You
when kid talk ab0ut l0ve...
A six-year-0ld b0y t0ld his father he wanted t0 marry the little girl acr0ss
the street. The father, being m0dern and well-sch0oled in handling children,
hid his smile behind his hand.
"That's a seri0us step," he said. "Have y0u th0ught it 0ut c0mpletely?"
"Yes," his young s0n answered. "We can spend 0ne week in my r0om and the next
in hers. It's right acr0ss the street, s0 I can run h0me if I get
scared 0f the dark."
"H0w ab0ut transp0rtati0n?" the father asked.
"I have my wag0n, and we b0th have 0ur tricycles," the little b0y answered.
The b0y had an answer t0 every questi0n the father raised.
Finally, in exasperati0n, his dad asked, "What ab0ut babies? When y0u're
married, y0u're liable t0 have babies, y0u kn0w."
"We've th0ught ab0ut that, t0o," the little b0y replied. "We're n0t g0ing t0
have babies. Every time she lays an egg, I'm g0ing to step 0n it!"
taken fr0m, http://www.inspirationallane.com/FunnyLoveStories2.htm
the street. The father, being m0dern and well-sch0oled in handling children,
hid his smile behind his hand.
"That's a seri0us step," he said. "Have y0u th0ught it 0ut c0mpletely?"
"Yes," his young s0n answered. "We can spend 0ne week in my r0om and the next
in hers. It's right acr0ss the street, s0 I can run h0me if I get
scared 0f the dark."
"H0w ab0ut transp0rtati0n?" the father asked.
"I have my wag0n, and we b0th have 0ur tricycles," the little b0y answered.
The b0y had an answer t0 every questi0n the father raised.
Finally, in exasperati0n, his dad asked, "What ab0ut babies? When y0u're
married, y0u're liable t0 have babies, y0u kn0w."
"We've th0ught ab0ut that, t0o," the little b0y replied. "We're n0t g0ing t0
have babies. Every time she lays an egg, I'm g0ing to step 0n it!"
taken fr0m, http://www.inspirationallane.com/FunnyLoveStories2.htm
d0n't trust guy?
24 sec0nd ag0, I had read a sad l0ve st0ry in the internet. This st0ry is ab0ut a teenage c0uple wh0 are fall in l0ve but their relati0ns are n0t last l0nger. This st0ry begins when the girl get his bargain t0 c0ntinue his study at the 0versea. The girl was s0 happy but his c0uple didn't let her g0. The girl has made her 0wn decisi0n and finally she fly t0 Ind0nesia and take medicine c0urse. Bef0re she fly, she already pr0mise t0 the guy that she will alway l0ve the guy and her l0ve 0nly f0r the guy. The guy was s0 upset.
6 YEARS LATER....... The girl already finished her study and back t0 Malaysia. She s0 excited want t0 meet his bel0ved pers0n. The girl bec0me a d0ct0r while the guy bec0me an engineering after finished his study in master. B0th 0f them bec0me a successful pers0n. One day, when the girl 0n the way t0 the h0spital, suddenly she saw that the guy with 0ther girl and the baby. They are s0 cl0se like husband and wife but the girl just think p0sitive ab0ut it. Then the girl try t0 c0ntact the guy and suddenly she hears the girl v0ice. She asking t0 talk with the guy and the girl said that his husband f0rget t0 bring the handph0ne al0ng. She s0 frustated because she already realized that her l0ve f0r the guy was d0esn't meaning f0r the guy anym0re. She still remember that the guy are willing and waiting f0r the girl until the girl finished her study but it is 0nly a liar w0rd. She s0 upset and try t0 f0rget all the sweet mem0ry with the guy. It is s0 hard t0 f0rget her first in l0ve. After the guy leave her, the girl never believe t0 fall in l0ve anym0re because she still l0ve the guy....
This is a true st0ry about the girl l0ve..S0,never t0 fall in l0ve if y0u are weak t0 face it..
taken fr0m, http://www.lovefatedestiny.com/funnylovestories2.htm
6 YEARS LATER....... The girl already finished her study and back t0 Malaysia. She s0 excited want t0 meet his bel0ved pers0n. The girl bec0me a d0ct0r while the guy bec0me an engineering after finished his study in master. B0th 0f them bec0me a successful pers0n. One day, when the girl 0n the way t0 the h0spital, suddenly she saw that the guy with 0ther girl and the baby. They are s0 cl0se like husband and wife but the girl just think p0sitive ab0ut it. Then the girl try t0 c0ntact the guy and suddenly she hears the girl v0ice. She asking t0 talk with the guy and the girl said that his husband f0rget t0 bring the handph0ne al0ng. She s0 frustated because she already realized that her l0ve f0r the guy was d0esn't meaning f0r the guy anym0re. She still remember that the guy are willing and waiting f0r the girl until the girl finished her study but it is 0nly a liar w0rd. She s0 upset and try t0 f0rget all the sweet mem0ry with the guy. It is s0 hard t0 f0rget her first in l0ve. After the guy leave her, the girl never believe t0 fall in l0ve anym0re because she still l0ve the guy....
This is a true st0ry about the girl l0ve..S0,never t0 fall in l0ve if y0u are weak t0 face it..
taken fr0m, http://www.lovefatedestiny.com/funnylovestories2.htm
10 secret t0 success...
1. Y0u sh0uld n0t fear with the c0nsequences (Remember, whatever the future h0lds it will pr0bably hurt 0r please y0u less than y0u imagine.)
2. Y0u have g0 with y0ur gut (S0metimes the m0re inf0rmati0n y0u have, the better 0ff y0u may be g0ing with y0ur instincts.)
3. Y0u als0 sh0uld c0nsider y0ur em0ti0ns (Whenever y0u make up y0ur mind, y0ur limbic system – the brain’s em0ti0nal centre – is active. Making ch0ices under the influence 0f an em0ti0n can seri0usly affect the 0utc0me. Anger can make us impetu0us, selfish and risk-pr0ne.)
4. Y0u have played the devil’s adv0cate (Y0u need t0 d0 m0re than latch 0n t0 facts and figures that y0u like best.)
5. Keep y0ur eye 0n the ball.
6. Beware 0f s0cial pressure (Beware situati0ns in which y0u have little individual resp0nsibility – that is when y0u are m0st likely t0 make irresp0nsible ch0ices.)
7. Y0u need t0 l0ok at it an0ther way (L0ok at y0ur 0pti0ns fr0m m0re than 0ne angle.)
8. D0n’t cry 0ver spilt milk (Always remind y0urself that the past is the past.)
9. Y0u must limit y0ur 0pti0ns (The idea that while we think m0re ch0ice is best,
0ften less is m0re.)
10. Y0u sh0uld have s0me0ne else ch0ose (Try letting s0me0ne f0r the else ch0ose the 0pti0n f0r the decisi0n.)
taken fr0m,
-Reader’s Digest, December 2007, page 90-96
2. Y0u have g0 with y0ur gut (S0metimes the m0re inf0rmati0n y0u have, the better 0ff y0u may be g0ing with y0ur instincts.)
3. Y0u als0 sh0uld c0nsider y0ur em0ti0ns (Whenever y0u make up y0ur mind, y0ur limbic system – the brain’s em0ti0nal centre – is active. Making ch0ices under the influence 0f an em0ti0n can seri0usly affect the 0utc0me. Anger can make us impetu0us, selfish and risk-pr0ne.)
4. Y0u have played the devil’s adv0cate (Y0u need t0 d0 m0re than latch 0n t0 facts and figures that y0u like best.)
5. Keep y0ur eye 0n the ball.
6. Beware 0f s0cial pressure (Beware situati0ns in which y0u have little individual resp0nsibility – that is when y0u are m0st likely t0 make irresp0nsible ch0ices.)
7. Y0u need t0 l0ok at it an0ther way (L0ok at y0ur 0pti0ns fr0m m0re than 0ne angle.)
8. D0n’t cry 0ver spilt milk (Always remind y0urself that the past is the past.)
9. Y0u must limit y0ur 0pti0ns (The idea that while we think m0re ch0ice is best,
0ften less is m0re.)
10. Y0u sh0uld have s0me0ne else ch0ose (Try letting s0me0ne f0r the else ch0ose the 0pti0n f0r the decisi0n.)
taken fr0m,
-Reader’s Digest, December 2007, page 90-96
Monday, October 20, 2008
h0w to st0p sm0king....
sm0king is n0t a g0od habit. every pe0ple kn0ws the bad effect 0f sm0king, but f0r th0se wh0 are sm0king, they may be ign0ring the side effect because 0f they are craving f0r cigarettes every day. in 0ther w0rds, sm0king has been their lifestyle that c0uld n0t be separated fr0m their life. here, i want t0 share s0me tips 0n h0w t0 quit sm0king. firstly, drink m0re water as water eliminates t0xins fr0m 0ur b0dy. sec0ndly, quit with buddies wh0 are ready t0 help y0u and st0p sm0king with y0u. next, enlist supp0rt and make a plan in 0rder t0 achieve y0ur g0als. Have a healthy lifestyle, think p0sitive and be patient always. in my experience, th0se wh0 are sm0king has a sh0rt age if we c0mpare t0 a n0rmal pers0n. besides, they are wasting their m0ney as they are burning the m0ney v0luntarily . as a human we sh0uld use 0ur mind t0 differentiate between p0sitive and negative f0r 0ur 0wn safety. say n0 t0 sm0king, if y0u are sm0kers, y0u als0 endangering y0ur family, s0 st0p sm0king fr0m t0day. last m0nth, i and my classmate had 0rganised a campaign h0w t0 st0p sm0king. the campaign was held at university malaysia pahang.
taken fr0m, http://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/quit_smoking/how_to_quit/quittip.htm
taken fr0m, http://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/quit_smoking/how_to_quit/quittip.htm
r0naldinh0 and his statue....
I read an article ab0ut r0naldinh0. N0wadays every0ne will kn0w wh0 is R0naldinh0. A f0otball superstar. Here I d0nt want t0 tell y0u all ab0ut when he begins his career 0r what makes him been a fantastic player 0r s0mething that is already stated in y0ur mind ab0ut this man.
N0w i wanted t0 tell y0u all ab0ut a tragedy that 0ccur 0n R0naldinh0 himself 0n 2 years ag0. It happened when the f0otball w0rldcup ended and Brazil l0st t0 France 0-1 in the semifinal match.
F0r y0ur inf0rmati0n, all the brazillian is fanatic t0 R0naldinh0. their 0bsessity was t0o high-up untill they make a s0lid-g0ld statue 0f R0naldinh0. The statue c0st the brazillian up t0 USD$ 52.5 milli0ns. It was as an apprecitati0n for R0naldinh0 f0r his c0ntributi0n t0 brazil in f0otball.
But what is sadist f0r me, when brazil l0st t0 france in the w0rld cup last 2 years, the valueble statue was dem0lished by his 0wn fanatic supp0rters.
taken fr0m, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ronaldinho
N0w i wanted t0 tell y0u all ab0ut a tragedy that 0ccur 0n R0naldinh0 himself 0n 2 years ag0. It happened when the f0otball w0rldcup ended and Brazil l0st t0 France 0-1 in the semifinal match.
F0r y0ur inf0rmati0n, all the brazillian is fanatic t0 R0naldinh0. their 0bsessity was t0o high-up untill they make a s0lid-g0ld statue 0f R0naldinh0. The statue c0st the brazillian up t0 USD$ 52.5 milli0ns. It was as an apprecitati0n for R0naldinh0 f0r his c0ntributi0n t0 brazil in f0otball.
But what is sadist f0r me, when brazil l0st t0 france in the w0rld cup last 2 years, the valueble statue was dem0lished by his 0wn fanatic supp0rters.
taken fr0m, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ronaldinho
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